Wednesday, July 22nd, 2009 /
Murray

Sun going down in our new Pamir hometown.
Dinner finished with a pack of Oreos from the US, some English tea and a round of friendly embraces. We walked back to the car to get ready for a night of sleeping in the car…again. As we prepared we saw two young guys walking our way. They were hesitant and whispering between the two of them. It was a very uncomfortable situation. These guys seemed to be up to something. So we rushed, trying to get in the car as quickly as possible.
Before we made it in, they walked up and started to talk with us. They asked where we were sleeping (in hand motions). We pointed to the car. They shook their heads. They pointed to a house and waved us over. They were inviting us to sleep at their home. We were not sure at first if we should or not. Will mentioned the idea that they might be leading us off into trouble. Joe mentioned they might be leading us away from the car to take something from it. Both were legitimate concerns. Then they pointed to the tires and fuel cans on the roof. They were telling us to put them inside the car. Why would they tell us to put them away if they were wanting to take something from us or to harm us? We felt more at ease, put it away, and followed them down a path to their home.

Home of our hosts for the night.
They lived in a traditional home for the area called a Chid. The building is representative of the universe according to their religious and philosophical beliefs. A great explanation of the symbolism in the house can be found at http://www.pamirs.org/pamiri%20house.htm.
We were welcomed into the house, where they immediately served us tea and prepared a meal of pasta, naan, candies, and vegetables. Although we were still full from our earlier meal, we dug in. This was wonderful. From not eating at all to eating two full meals was a real treat.
The family was made up of their father (a truck driver who was gone for the evening), a mother who was in her late 30’s, two sons in their late teens, and a daughter who was PRIME age for young William. With no electricity, the house was lit by a simple kerosene lantern. This lantern was strategically placed on a table next to the chair. In the chair sat the daughter, as if a display in a department store window.
Conversation started with ages, then immediately to “married?” I pulled the same stunt as before, “I’m married, these guys are single…especially Will!” They laughed and were quick to point out that the daughter was single as well. Not a lot of conversation was had, but they were excellent hosts making sure we were well fed and cared for.

Our host family...or was it Will's new family...
The large room was set up with three mats, blankets and pillows. It felt great to sleep laying down and not in the seat of the car. We immediately fell asleep and had a full night’s sleep. We woke with the sun and some light stirring in the other room. When we sat up the oldest son walked us outside to pour hot water for us to rinse our faces.
We returned to a table set with breakfast. Naan, a bowl of what seemed to be tea mixed with a salty broth, and hot tea. We finally convinced one of the boys to sit with us and eat, but the other family members only served us. After some time we thanked our hosts and went to the car to give gifts to the family as a thank you. The postcards, coins from our countries, Oreos and tea were warmly received.